I visited a nice one here about 2years ago.
After the praying guys had left my mate proceeded to get all the wives and girls outside.
At the beginning of each period there would be a little debate as to who could go to the toilet when.
They were immediately all silent and now focussed on me.
In our private function, there was no segregation and women were allowed to be uncovered, I guess as it was a private event.
From my previous stint here I know that expats from western countries have many different options for entertainment, it just depends on a lot of networking and getting invited to the right places where you can meet some other people in the same boat.